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$300 Target Card Give-AWAY and two angel girls

Happy December!  We’ve been having some rainy weather and it’s been so nice to feel like we have real ‘weather’ 🙂

 

So, I wanted to do something FUN and would love for you to join me.  I think you would love for you to join me, too!

So if you follow me on instagram (the universal blog killer, lol) you’ve seen me post a tiny bit about two sweet girls;

Nelly:

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(she’s like, “Hey, I’m super sweet.”)

AND…

Amelie:

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Last year we did a drive for Pavel, a little, darling bedridden boy and he got not just ONE family, but TWO who started pursuing him.  The family furthest along is about to travel to PICK HIM UP!

 

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So, WHY donate to either of these girls; Nelly or Amelie this time?  Other than the fact that all children are precious and need stable, loving home to grow and thrive?

Well, I’ll TELL YOU!

I did a poll as to what cool toy I could give away as a donation prize, and Nintendo Switch came up, but the poll was only 50/50.  So, I got to thinking.  I still want the Switch to be an option to win, but I also want it be flexible so someone who may donate but doesn’t want that, but obviously deserves to be rewarded…

So, long story short, we’re giving away….

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(And Ellen isn’t giving it away, although she’s WELCOME to donate…Ellen?  Ellen?)

$300 Target gift card!  So YES you could be winning a Nintendo SWITCH, or just taking care of ALLLLLLL your shopping needs all together!  Win, win, win…

WIN

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WIN

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win:

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How to enter:

Go here: https://reecesrainbow.org/133673/amelie and donate any about (I think the rr minimum is $5)

or go here: https://reecesrainbow.org/131649/nelly and donate any amount

THEN screen shot me the receipt and email it to: amy@tinygreenelephants.com and voila, you’re entered!

It’s SUPER easy, beyond easy.  Probably spending the $300 Target card will be more time consuming than donating to these angel girls.

Who doesn’t love giving AND receiving this time of year?

 

LET’S DO THIS!  If one angel baby boy Pavel could get two families last year, what could these two girls get with some donations and prayers?  I don’t know, let’s find out!

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Also, please share this post, even if you don’t care at all about orphans or you think kids are lame, that’s FINE!  You can STILL donate a small about and get that Target card.  In fact, please do.  You don’t have to adopt them.  But there are MANY families would would love to love these girls but the price is to high, to let’s take some chucks out of the costs together!

  1. Pray
  2. Donate
  3. Share this post
  4. Let’s get these girls out of an institution and into families!
  5. And let’s get you a Nintendo Switch (Or whatever you actually want 🙂

 

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Anyways, love you guys.  We’ve seen miracles happen before for forgotten children when a few people band together and donate (Honestly the majority small, sweet, humble donations)

Merry Christmas!  I hope you win!  xoxo

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Maria is 17

It’s different when they come to you at ten.  Perhaps that’s obvious in it’s rarity.

Andrew and I wavered in extremes of over parenting and acting aloof in ‘not caring’ about minor infractions, for instance once I read on facebook that creating a checklist is good for children, so I did that, but then a counselor told me that subconsciously she may feel untrusted by being given one, “BUT!” I responded.

“BUT!  Do I remind about tooth brushing EVERYDAY to a teenager!?”

“Well, at this point, it’s really her problem…” she told me…

I had already spoken up loudly once in this session, anymore and it would be a waste of money.  Although this clearly couldn’t be true… although I felt part of me feeling like I should agree with this on some cosmic, peaceful level.  Teeth are just so permanent and ‘in your face’ (I apologize for how funny I think that it, but I also appreciate I can now laugh about this, good job me.)

I digress.

So then came the acting.  Like I was ‘acting’ when I told her she could throw the list away a few years ago and I was ‘acting’ when I told her I trusted she knew how to take care of herself.  I was ‘acting’ because I was believing that people do well with this kind of trust and pressure.

I was relying more on the pressure.

I was acting the first couple times I noticed fuzzy teeth by afternoon, and acted aloof.  But–overtime, things evened out, and I wasn’t overworking or overcompensating. Things got great in the self care dept.

Parenting has literally been guessing and acting and a ton of driving.

And she started taking great care of herself, and becoming her own person, and graduated from ELD class, and volunteering, and got her driving permit, and DOESN’T get cavities, so, in my face, I guess.  I guess we’re all doing great, or better.

Last night we played a card game with the older kids and grandparents with square cards with deeply personal or uniting questions, it’s made in the Netherlands, so you know it’s good.

“What are some habits your family has that makes them healthy?”  Maria answered that we have family dinners together and talk. Yes we talk and we get very real, and we think it’s normal, until we see it from the outside, like over the weekend when all Maria’s friends were here for her birthday party that they were still feeling new to the home and they were circled around our table munching BBQ chips to do something with their hands,  and Maria asked, “What’s your biggest fears?” so Andrew and I slowly slipped out of THAT room very quickly and questioned our parenting for a second,“Is that what she thinks in normal? Is that our default?” Then we shrugged, not our problem. Not acting.

Turns out all the girls are in the same church small group and very self aware so they loved it, and the party moved on swimmingly.  It was more of a reflection of their own ecosystem than anything else. Then we played Charades and let them alone to be cute, they all got her thoughtful presents and clapped for her, and encouraged her.  She opened another journal with a bible verse across it and starbucks card and Poppy yelled from her seat of a teen lap, “YOU’RE RICH!” The girls lingered, and everyone was happy and comfortable, and Finley declared he was inviting all the teens to his birthday party too, “Cause they’re SO NICE!”

We had wanted her to have real, good friends for years and years.  But it never happened, there were some hopes a few times, but nothing panned out.  I had my opinions why, married to solutions, I am an ‘aggressive problem solver’ as my enneagram tells me, but after a couple years, I left it alone. “Maybe she’s an introvert who truly likes just reading, crafts and family time…”  I had no response to this obvious falsehood same counselor told me… But I digressed. Either way, this time if someone questioned me, I had paid advise that I could point to. To question it would be like throwing away money.

Sitting around our living room with girls who wanted to spend time with her, and her family members and gave her wrapped framed photos of them together at winter camp and I literally didn’t know teens knew how to print pictures.

When I gave her a printer paper receipt (my go to when I order something last minute that hasn’t arrived yet) of “The LO Box” made by her Queen Sadie Robertson, a customized box of items to ‘host your own bible study’ Maria told me, and I didn’t tell her, ‘but you’re already in a bible study,’ I just bought it because then I wouldn’t need to go shopping.  And when she opened, well, I mean, unfolded the paper, and and yelled with delight about hosting her own bible study, all her friends raised their hands, “I WANT TO JOIN!” and “WHAT ARE THE DATES!?” and I thought, wow, these kids are so dang cute. And Maria excited, asked me “When is the box coming?” And I said, “SOON!” because I didn’t know, and I said it enthusiastically because it was her birthday.

The girls lingered and they were sad to see the younger siblings shuffled to bed, but not as sad as the siblings marching away from a PARTY TO THEIR BEDS of which there is no deeper injustice.  The girls made summer plans, and shared photos on some common photo location Andrew created for them and talked about their futures and wanting to do ministry, they all nodded to that one, and they spoke to me like composed, heartfelt young adults and I thought, “Wow, these girls are something special.”

If someone would have told me about this night during my check list days, perhaps I would have let it go without ripping it from my own fist.  And next year, Maria will be an adult, and technically responsible for her own teeth financially, but the fact that she doesn’t actually need any help in that area is a testament to both of our growth as people, as a family and as consumers of floss.

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PAVEL for Christmas! *GIVEAWAY*

HIIIIIIIIIIII!

How have you been?

I want to introduce you to someone:

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His name is Pavel, and he’s so sweet.  Look at those wrists, the red hair, the eager eyes.  “Do you see me?  Does someone see me?”  He craves attention on the hunt for the connection and love he wants so badly.  His poor head has slowly been filling with water, expanding his skull.  It’s a condition called Hydrocephalus.  The hydro meaning ‘water.’  If he were in America, it would be an easy fix, but he’s an orphan, so no one helped him.  BUT, someone fundraised $400 for him to receive a ‘shunt’ (which is inserted during surgery, and voila!  His head will stop filling! ) We donated a little bit, and he reached his goal!  Since we donated, we have watched his videos, how desperately he works with his limited mobility to interact with others, he’s desperate to receive love.  But unfortunately, he is bed ridden, and mostly alone.  The opportunity for surgery is amazing…but he will also be going through surgery without a mama or father by his side.

Can you imagine the fear an discomfort for a little baby like this?

My family and I have been praying for Pavel.  Praying and praying.  We have come to the conclusion that he needs more than a shunt surgery (although that is a good start).  We have come to the conclusion that this little baby needs a mama, and a papa.  Someone to love him each day, and when he wakes up, someone will scoop him up with love, the love that has always been just out of reach will then be in abundance, day after day, forever.

How?  Well, you can be a part of his life change.  Of Pavel’s miracle.  How?

  1.  There is a matching grant offered to Pavel for $1000.  If that amount is not donated, the matching grant cannot be donated to him.  His grant right now reads 445.50.  Once it reads 1445.50, an anonymous donor (YAYY!) will donate a FULL $1000 to Pavel.  As this baby is recovering from surgery alone this week, there may be people like you and me creating a last change for hope for him.  We can CHOOSE to sow tiny seeds into that final moment that his mama walks through the door, locks eyes with him, and for the first time, doesn’t walk away.  “Who…me!?” he’ll think.
  2.  For ANNNNNY size donation (As low as $5!!!!) you will be entered into a drawing for a $100 Amazon card.  So this Christmas, you can not only help to change the life of Pavel who could NOT need more help in his life, but also provide some awesome presents for people in your life who need them.  When you donate ANY amount, screen shot your receipt, and email it to: amy@tinygreenelephants.com to enter the drawing.  I promise you your odds will be good, but Pavel’s odds for coming out of darkness will be just as grand!
  3. My kiiiiiiiiids say that ANYONE who donates over $200….well, they will sing and choreograph any song of your choosing, create a video of it, and share it.  They are all budding musicians, so, be prepared for something *delightful!*  They say “Thank you for considering!”  Please screen shot your receipt for a donation like this, for an entry into the amazon give away, and for your song request.IMG_4508 IMG-8450

 

We have until the last day of December this year to qualify for the matching grant!  MATCHING GRANT!  One of the best parts of this, is that hopefully we can all be sharing this in hopes to raise our funding needs, BUT I bet–Pavel’s mama will see him in the process.  Drop everything and start the process.  “Adoption is SO expensive though,” she may think. But when she looks at the little grant next to his picture, she’ll know that a big chunk of the adoption costs will be covered, because of the efforts we do now!

So who wants to start us off?  $20?  $25?  $5?  Click here, donate, and send the receipt.  You could be walking away with an amazon card, and Pavel, the boy who loves, could be walking out of the darkness of an orphanage forever in his mama’s arms.

Donate HERE! : https://reecesrainbow.org/122701/pavel-2?fbclid=IwAR2IzV-Ak75Zw9Yw7yjP7birQZfbGFv5DxJ_lfjo289sLFEQ0p1HdikL9mM

 

Once you donate, share this link!  The more you share, the more will see his sweet face.  Please be praying for him, too!  We BELIEVE his mama is waiting for him right now too, but just doesn’t know his face yet.

 

THANK YOU!  Love you!

xoxo,

Amy & fam & Pavel

 

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See a video of Pavel here

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